My new book on how to support people living with cancer is published as a hardback by Roman & Littlefield and available from all online book sellers.
“Everyone will benefit from his advise“-Jack C. Westman, M.D.,author of The Cancer Solution: Taking Charge of Our Life with Cancer
“Simple but profound advice…rich in wisdom”-Betty Ferrell, Director, Division of Nursing Research and Education, City of Hope
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“A must read for persons whose family member has cancer”-Youngmee Kim, Phd, University of Miami
HERE’S A SUMMARY OF THE BOOK
At least once in your life someone will say to you, “I have cancer,” and when she says the three words, you may struggle with a response. If a loved one or friend hasn’t informed you of a cancer diagnosis, it’s only a matter of time until they will. Every year fourteen million people worldwide learn they are living with or may die from this insidious illness. The uncertainty of cancer causes anxiety in those diagnosed and feelings of inadequacy in loved ones and friends who want to help.
When someone says “I have cancer,” what will you say? More importantly, what will you do? In Loving, Supporting, and Caring for the Cancer Patient, readers will learn specific ways of going beyond the response “I’m so sorry,” and practical behaviors that will ease a loved one or friend’s journey. They range from being specific immediately after a diagnosis, to honoring their loved one or friend at the moment of passing.
Based on my cancer journey, thirty years of counseling and coaching people living with cancer and their loved ones, and as a bedside volunteer in four hospices over eight years, the book is filled with poignant accounts of clients and patients, personal reflections, and age-old stories filled with infinite wisdom.





A friend of mine recommended this book. As somebody who has been a caregiver for my wife for the past 11 years with her stage 4 breast cancer, I wish there was a book more focused on helping the caregivers work through things they go through. Maybe a topic on why everybody leaves, and the caregivers left alone. It’s interesting that the cancer patient then gets surrounded by other people going through cancer, but the caregivers left isolated alone.
Hi Howard (sorry if this is your last name. It was difficult to tell in the heading).
Have you looked at Leaning Into Sharp Points? It’s a book I wrote just for caregivers who are experiencing the lack of support and isolation you feel.
Hello, were can i buy this book?
thank you
It’s available through Amazon and all online book sellers. Thanks for asking about it.
Stan
THANK YOU!!
So many times in my nursing career in Oncology and Hospice the statement was made, “Becki, I don’t know what to say.” Bless you Stan for writing this book!!”
Thank you Becki. As my mother would say, “From your mouth to HIS ears.”
Good for you, Stan! Want to see your face one of these days soon.
Just name the day and time.
Look forward to your book, as I do with all your writings!
Thanks Carmen for your support and kind words.