When the Ground Shakes: A Need for Structure

When the Ground Shakes: A Need for Structure

I was concerned when I came home and couldn’t find my mother. The back of the house has a steep incline off the deck that leads to a forested area. When I saw that the gate leading down the stairs was open, concern turned to panic.

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What’s Wrong with My Underwear?

What’s Wrong with My Underwear?

Since both my wife and I have hearing problems, when we speak to each other in different rooms, our conversations can become the basis for a sit-com on aging.

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Has the Music Stopped? Life After a Loss

Has the Music Stopped? Life After a Loss

When a sleep disorder forced me to retire at 57, and six months later I developed prostate cancer, I reacted to life as if the music had stopped.

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You’ve Got It!

You’ve Got It!

It was Monday, May 27, 2002 and the morning fog was clearing. Sitting in my kitchen drinking a cup of coffee, I watched the Pacific become visible. It would be a great day. Then the phone rang. “Good morning Stan”, my doctor said, “the results are positive.”

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